Sitemap - 2025 - the braid

3. Reading How to Lose Your Mother at Hollywood Forever Cemetery

we have arrived with a thud in the Artificial Age

How to Host a 50th Birthday Party for Your Dead Husband with Whom you Have a Complicated Relationship

how to grow (a bush)

Reading The Dry Season at the DMV

for the mothers who are fathers, too

and just like that might be the worst show on television so what does it say about us that we can't stop watching?

blood on our hands

baby's first loop electrosurgical excision procedure (LEEP)

my magnificent friend who taught me how to live while dying

small car blues

Bloom Cycles II

well over the mileage limit

how to eat a meal in the middle of a food fight

On Dying for Sex, living for female horniness and the impossibility of healing a man's pain with a woman's hope

mothers are people, too

it happened to me: a 'feminist sex and relationships therapist' with 'two PHDs' told me I didn't understand consent because I didn't go to college

what does it mean not to 'settle'

instead of offering our former selves advice perhaps we should be asking them for it

Staying, Leaving and Private Chats by Phone

it isn't weird unless you make it weird

between Tangier and the Blue City

year of the snake

1. young men have always been turned on by older women 2. the patriarchy has always benefited from convincing 40+ women we're invisible 3. we're not.

on the roads that connect us, the grief of what cannot be replaced and the enduring light of los angeles

speaking of sex and grief... (and los angeles)

when "good girls" are "bad girls" or why I will always root for a woman's pleasure over her fidelity to the men who can't give it to her