Phew. I was the kid who did get to go to Europe at 21 (but who then struggled to conceive and didn't get to be a mom until 30, we all have our different regrets, eh?), and even still this post brought me to tears. Feeling all the feels.
I’m always so blown away by your writing but this one made me cry and feel all the emotions. Sometimes I let my mind wander to the life I might have had if I hadn’t had children but I always feel so much guilt and shame for even thinking about it, like if I think of that other life it’s somehow betraying the life I did choose. Thank you for, yet again, removing shame and reminding me it’s all okay. ❤️
Love this!! This quote really hits home for me: so much of healing is allowing yourself to feel sad about things that also bring you so much gratitude. 🙏🏼. Also it felt for me in reading that actually choosing to have archer was choosing you 💗 it was putting yourself first in the way that it was trusting your gut and the journey it wanted you to take! Kids are beautiful, my daughter is only 7 and she is medicine for my soul 🔥
As always, gorgeous writing. There are so many roads we could have taken and the bridges to those roads kind of get burned when we pass by them. I look back on what could have been and know that, while it was much more difficult, I am happy with the decisions I made and love the life I created. Part of that life has brought me to find you ( SO many years ago!) and kept me reading your brilliance. Thank you
That last line crushed me! So beautiful, so true. I understand the deep jealousy that is tied to the overwhelming joy. My son, who just turned 14 and already gets to do more things than I ever got to do myself, is named Archer, too.
I can tell you that no, not all mothers who got pregnant on accident talk to their children about the choice to have them or not... I wish my mom had.
This was really beautiful... thanks for sharing <3
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Phew. I was the kid who did get to go to Europe at 21 (but who then struggled to conceive and didn't get to be a mom until 30, we all have our different regrets, eh?), and even still this post brought me to tears. Feeling all the feels.
I’m always so blown away by your writing but this one made me cry and feel all the emotions. Sometimes I let my mind wander to the life I might have had if I hadn’t had children but I always feel so much guilt and shame for even thinking about it, like if I think of that other life it’s somehow betraying the life I did choose. Thank you for, yet again, removing shame and reminding me it’s all okay. ❤️
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this made me cry, just beautiful
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"How so much of healing is allowing yourself to feel sad about things that also bring you so much gratitude."
THIS!
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Love this!! This quote really hits home for me: so much of healing is allowing yourself to feel sad about things that also bring you so much gratitude. 🙏🏼. Also it felt for me in reading that actually choosing to have archer was choosing you 💗 it was putting yourself first in the way that it was trusting your gut and the journey it wanted you to take! Kids are beautiful, my daughter is only 7 and she is medicine for my soul 🔥
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And there is a gift in all you feel…..an understanding, honest and true…❤️
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I SOBBED reading this. Love love love, so real, so beautiful, thank you for sharing
I love you Laura. Thank you.
As always, gorgeous writing. There are so many roads we could have taken and the bridges to those roads kind of get burned when we pass by them. I look back on what could have been and know that, while it was much more difficult, I am happy with the decisions I made and love the life I created. Part of that life has brought me to find you ( SO many years ago!) and kept me reading your brilliance. Thank you
Yes. This. And THANK YOU. 🥺❤️
Beautiful, Rebecca. Cried at the end.
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That last line crushed me! So beautiful, so true. I understand the deep jealousy that is tied to the overwhelming joy. My son, who just turned 14 and already gets to do more things than I ever got to do myself, is named Archer, too.
You need to go!
There are a thousand lives we could have lived. The secret, I think, is to like the one you chose.