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Meggie Cramer's avatar

Heartbreaking humanness, oh wow, yes. This is why, despite being single and childless, I found solace in dooce and GGC in my early adulthood. You both made me feel infinitely less alone in my humanity, in the raw nerve of my existence, and gave me room to believe big feelings meant big possibility. Thank you to you both.

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JEANETTE LEBLANC's avatar

"What people keep missing (over and over. and over) when we talk about those early days of blogging is this: no one was there for the fame. Or the attention. We were there because we were writers. And writers fucking write."

This. THIS AND THIS AND THIS AND THIS AND THIS.

This is what I loved about those days and this is what has filled my entire heart about what is happening here on Substack.

I wouldn't be the writer I am without Heather. I wouldn't have ever conceived that it was possible to go from writing about pregnancy and birth and spit up to making writing into a life and a living for myself without Heather. I wouldn't have learned that one even had the option of being that honest and that real and that true.

There was something about being a blogger in those early days. Something special that I can never quite put into words when I try to talk about it. Something i've mourned ever since the day Google Reader died and I really admitted the era was over. You said it in that paragraph above. In those days, we learned we were writers, and we learned how to write. It was always bigger than the minutia of our days, it was us learning to tell the truth about our lives. And she was the one who put the flag in the ground and claimed the space and made sure we all had a seat at the table.

Rest easy indeed.

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